So I am reviewing our trip notes, as I prepare to finally write the end of our epic story, and look what I found! I KNEW I wrote this..and it doesn't even come close to paying proper homage. This is my original blog about Leila and Tommy.
I met Leila while teaching pre-school, over a decade ago. She was a kind, enthusiastic and dedicated teacher, who really just emitted light. I always admired her optimistic yet honest approach to life, and it was a treat to work beside her.
Over the years, Leila has popped up in my grown up life. Although these reconnections always seemed random, I can't deny serendipity at play. I usually see Leila when my chips are down, life is turbulent and hope is threatened. And Leila sends relief. I am sure she doesn't think twice about these rescues, but for me, they are enormo. She helps, smiles, directs and reminds me that all problems can be solved; fears can be faced.
So listen to this:
Leila writes after I sent over our blog and life update, saying, "You have to meet my husband." Tommy has hiked the triple crown (which I'd never learned of, heard of or even dreamed I'd care about, before reading for this trip); Appalachian Trail- ,Pacific Crest Trail- , Colorado- . He is also a teacher, a father and a writer; devoting the same sincere thought, perception/ awareness and excitement for life that I imagine, drives him to hike these insane trails. He is a good person, which is no surprise, given his marriage to Leila.
They have two beautiful children, whom I met when they invited me to dinner and a hiking tutorial. Invaluable is all I can think to describe his help. He took a real interest in my plans and truly coached me; lending all that he has learned and loved on his amazing adventures. He walked me through the trail, addressed my fears, strategized an itinerary and combed through our gear. The fact that he didn't placate me, or discourage me at all, while being perfectly straight forward about our endeavor, brought me such relief. I didn't know Tommy at all, but suddenly felt like I had someone to help me (I have had so much encouragement, but Tommy provided the mentoring that I so needed). Additionally, both Leila and Tommy offered inspirational music and words, and my head and heart are eternally grateful to their help and friendship. Thank you family.